Why Divorce Mediation?
Why Divorce Mediation? Because Children Deserve to Be Heard.
What drives a clinical psychologist with decades of experience working with children, adolescents, and families to pursue divorce mediation? For Dr. Eliezer Jones, the answer is deeply personal—and rooted in a lifelong commitment to the well-being of young people.
After completing intensive training in Divorce Mediation and Child-Inclusive Divorce Mediation at Northwestern University's Kellogg building, the path forward became clear: mediation isn't a departure from the work—it's an extension of it. Child-Inclusive Divorce Mediation brings children's voices into the heart of the divorce process, helping parents make decisions that honor their child's emotional experience and support long-term resilience.
Having experienced divorce firsthand as a young child, Dr. Eliezer Jones understands the quiet, lasting imprint separation leaves on a child's world—even when conflict is minimal. This practice exists to make sure that when a family's world is changing, every child's story matters.
Serving families through therapy, mediation, and Child-Inclusive Divorce Mediation.
Divorce Does Not Have to Mean the End of Your Family
When the Marriage Ends, the Family Doesn't Have to
What if divorce didn't have to mean dismantling your family? For some couples, the end of a marriage is not the end of a shared life as parents—and with the right process, it doesn't have to be.
After two decades of working with children and families as a therapist and educator, one truth stands out clearly: it is not divorce itself that harms children most. It is ongoing conflict between their parents. Children are remarkably resilient when the adults around them remain stable, cooperative, and child-focused.
That's exactly what divorce mediation is designed to support. Rather than asking how do we divide what we had, mediation asks what do we want our family to look like going forward—a fundamentally different question that opens possibilities litigation never could.
At Lakeshore Mediation, we help families build parenting plans that are personal, detailed, and rooted in what their children actually need. Because the end of your marriage does not have to mean the end of your family.
Healthy resolutions are at the core of all good mediations.