MARRIAGE MEDIATION

A structured, respectful space to work through conflict and move forward—together or apart


Marriage or Couples Mediation is a confidential, voluntary process that helps partners work through conflict with the support of a neutral mediator. In Illinois, marriage mediation is often used by married or unmarried partners who want help resolving ongoing issues, improving communication, or making thoughtful decisions about the future of their relationship without going to court.

Unlike therapy, marriage mediation is goal-oriented and forward-focused, helping partners address specific issues and reach clear agreements.


What Is Marriage Mediation?

Marriage mediation is a guided conversation process in which a trained mediator helps partners:

Clarify concerns and priorities

Improve communication around difficult topics

Resolve ongoing conflicts

Make decisions about next steps in the relationship

The mediator does not take sides, diagnose problems, or tell either partner what to do. Instead, they create structure, ensure balanced participation, and help the couple work toward mutual understanding and practical solutions.

Common Issues Addressed in Marriage Mediation

Couples use mediation to work through:

Communication breakdowns

Parenting disagreements

Financial stress or budgeting conflicts

Household roles and responsibilities

Trust issues or ongoing tension

Decisions about separation or staying together

Mediation can be helpful whether couples are trying to strengthen their relationship or separate respectfully.


How Marriage Mediation

Is Different from Therapy

Marriage mediation and couples therapy serve different purposes. Some couples use mediation as a standalone service, while others use it alongside therapy.

Marriage Mediation

Focuses on specific issues and decisions

Is time-limited and structured

Helps couples reach agreements or clarity

Does not involve treatment or diagnosis

Couples Therapy

Focuses on emotional healing and relational patterns

Is typically open-ended

Addresses deeper psychological or attachment issues