
MARRIAGE MEDIATION
A structured, respectful space to work through conflict and move forward—together or apart
Marriage or Couples Mediation is a confidential, voluntary process that helps partners work through conflict with the support of a neutral mediator. In Illinois, marriage mediation is often used by married or unmarried partners who want help resolving ongoing issues, improving communication, or making thoughtful decisions about the future of their relationship without going to court.
Unlike therapy, marriage mediation is goal-oriented and forward-focused, helping partners address specific issues and reach clear agreements.
Marriage mediation is a guided conversation process in which a trained mediator helps partners:
The mediator does not take sides, diagnose problems, or tell either partner what to do. Instead, they create structure, ensure balanced participation, and help the couple work toward mutual understanding and practical solutions.
Couples use mediation to work through:
Mediation can be helpful whether couples are trying to strengthen their relationship or separate respectfully.
Marriage mediation and couples therapy serve different purposes. Some couples use mediation as a standalone service, while others use it alongside therapy.